I've also realized that as a man, I have special insight and experience that can help the Nice Guys of the world.
I just ran across a website, with some good podcasts, of a great Seattle therapist named Sue Bates, which I think could be a resource for the Nice Girls of the world, so I thought I would share it with you: http://www.asksuebates.com/
What other Nice Guy and Nice Girl resources have *you* run into out there? Leave them in the comments!